Thanks chlorine, that confirms my gut feelings. It's as if it's unfinished business but getting back together with her would be a mistake. That's why I steer clear of her and I'd never dream of phoning her.

The penny dropped when she texted her new house number. There would be no reason for me to "need" her number. When she phoned, it was from her mobile which suggests my number was still in her phone. She could have deleted it ( of course she may have a v good memory ! ) Thanks again