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Old 14-12-03, 11:00 PM
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What reason's do you have to love her? Don't feel alone, there are plenty of people that are in the same situation you are in. I have been there before also, and I can't rule out the fact that it may happen to me again. I personally just have to do my best to not let it happen.

One thing you can not be scared of is rejection. Failure is evident in situations like this, don't fear it or it will break you down mentally and even physically. The only thing you want to fear is fear itself. Don't lose all hope, sometimes you have to hit the bottem to work your way back up.

Take in the fact that, if she hasn't shown any signs that she likes you, then chances are she doesn't like you that way. If she is being shy about it, or expecting you to make ALL the moves, you will find yourself in a worse situation that you are in now. You say you are in love with her, and she is perfect? If she was really perfect you wouldn't be asking for help, not to sound critical but it is the truth eh? Perfection is invisible, I say that because we like to only notice things when they are wrong or bad.

I'm not going to suggest moving onto a new chick, but you might want to try focusing on controlling the emotions that are tearing you down. You have a Subconscious mind, it is your decision how you let emotions get to you.....Remember YOU can control how you feel about something, 100% of people today have the ability to be happy, all they have to do is find a way convince themself they are happy with what they have now.

I can't promise you anything I said can help, but I seriously think you can make yourself a promise to not let rejection ruin you. It happens to the best of us.
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