I think you're at a point _ (actually well past it) where you need to find out why she is making you wait.

Sex is normal and natural part of human life. If you understand the reasons why someone doesnt want to acknowlege that part of their life (thereby yours) then you know and can evaluate wherether or not you wanna leave.

Clearly sex is not what you want out of the relationship, but holding out like that for those reasons, is unfair.

She needs to level with you what her beef is, or you should cut her loose. Does she have an STI? Was she abused? Is she a closet lesbian? Is it her faith? Is she just a control freak...like what gives?

You're at a point where she owes you an explanation more then what you seem to have received. Because clearly you have demonstrated your care for her, and if you were there just for the sex, you'd have left her a long long long time ago.


that's me though.