Hey everyone,

Wud appreciate sum advice on this:

A few weeks ago I found out this girl liked me ( even though we'd never even chatted b4), so I got her email and we sent quite a few messages. Things were apprearing to go well, so I arranged to meet her at a party.

This is when the problem started - see i'm like really insecure about my looks and personality and stuff as i've never had a gf b4 ( im 25 ) , and I just keep thinkin like why on earth wud anyone like me and if i go talk to her im just gonna make it worse and all this kinda stuff.

So anyhow she was at the party, and she was talkin to these guys all nite - so i didnt go up and say hi. And so the party finished without me actually meetin this girl.

I was a bit annoyed at all this so the next day I sent her a an email apoligisin for not talkin to her - i just said i was real nervous - and asked her if she wanted to go to another party, but she hasnt replied ( and that was a few days ago!)

So do u reckon i've blown it then, r what should i do now?

Thanks
dave