"I'm sorry I didn't talk to you the other night, I was too nervous. You want to go to another party where I'll be? Maybe I'll have the balls to talk to you then..."

Buddy, you screwed this up. Look at it this way: she was talking to guys all night, they clearly had the balls to talk to her, you, on the other hand, think you're worthless when it comes to dating and aren't confident enough to talk to her, how enticing a catch you make yourself to be.

Look, if you don't even want yourself, why the **** would she want you?

So... you are insecure about your looks. Do you think women date guys solely based on looks? Homie, look at your friends and who they're dating, you might notice its not solely based on looks.

And about your personality, do you think you need to change your personality? Learn to like something new and suppress yourself? The only part of you that is messed up is that you don't dare approach... even when you have hints that she is interested in you... in which case she clearly wants to talk to you. Would you rather sit around knowing she may like you for a short while and never talk to her or actually bust a move?

My god, don't be such a punk. "Why on earth would anyone like me?" Shit, the way you sound the only woman that would like you is Mother Teresa, and last I heard she died. This is what you need to do, quit the ****ing self-pity and go out.

I'm not gonna sit here and rag on you through this entire post just to have you feel like shit, I have two options for you. One, you can sit around, scour internet forums, and date your first chick at 33. Two, you can approach girls this month and ask them for their phone numbers until you get 10 rejections. You'll figure out rejections are no big thing and you''ll walk away with some phone numbers while you're at it.