hi, since you basically have the same problem as me heres someone's advice they gave me in another forum..'

"One thing is to make sure the other person is feeling the same way as you are. That way you are always move forward with that person and not back. How well do you know this girl? Just take the time to get to know her and how she acts around you. The "Love" word is thrown around so much these days, just don't say it to say it. I mean, Love is SO strong and so powerful, it can move mountains. Love doesn't just go away or change it's mind, it's constant. If you feel you change and turn into a different person it's because there's a bit of risk involved in the relationship, you care for them dearly and are afraid of getting hurt, it's understandable, but don't let it control you to the point that you become clingy, needy, or just a whole different person."

hope that helps you as much as it did me.