Some guys have not had the privaliged to be called this way.
Finally. He starts to stand up for himself.
Step one is becoming confident. I noticed your other posts sounding like a wuss with "Why are you bothering me? Don't make fun of me." Push and shove back. You don't think I took a lot of crap in high school for being a clarinet player? I pushed and shoved back with confidence (not to mention I was captain of the wrestling team so I could push back pretty hard

). You have to say things with confidence, and you gain confidence, and it shows, and girls like it.
Alexi