I see. Well, it's a very tedious post which seems to be studded with several ridiculous presumptions....women age 5 years after pregnancy...men loose physical seniorty...99.9% here, .1% there...I really have no idea what you're trying to get at. If it's a question of 2 years difference in age in whichever gender, I'd say it's all pretty moot, Chinese tradition notwithstanding. Just sounds like heavy-handed relatives trying to control other people's lives to me.

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