We've both cried to each other in person and on the phone... though we do it on the phone because we know if we cried in person, we'd really get emotional and totally lose control of ourselves... but yeah, the asking for her back is a no-no. U gotta be strong guy... seriously.

One thing I realized is that when I started seeing my girl, she wasn't exactly at her best and needed some work. The more I encouraged her to be independent and work hard, the more she bought into the ideas... but at the same time, the more I bought into my own ideas too because I needed to shape up to show her a living example for her to follow... otherwise, why bother encouraging her so much if i cannot live up to my own standards? Really, you need to stand up to it and act tall because love is not simply sharing company with another but developing a relationship of trust, faith, and mutual support in terms of emotional/economic/physical support for all those hard times. Because in the end, your mate is going to be the last person you will ever know....

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