I did I suppose. Living together had the greatest impact. I started appreciating her more than I did when we first started dating. You see I was just looking for a rebound girl at the time. She was close to what you'd call a goth so definately not someone I would really be interested in. I guess she wasn't a goth but she wore all black and hung out with D&D type people. Anyway, it probably took a year of dating before I realized what we had. She grew on me shall we say. As our relationship grew, she started wearing less and less black and turned into a very beautiful woman. That lasted for four years before it fell apart. With any luck, I'll get a second chance some day because I love her very much.