I didn't mean that he was being unfair about wanting me not to do this work.
I meant that he was being unfair by telling me that everything in my life is his buisness and he has a say in all of it, yet I'm not allowed to even know about anything he's doing in his life let alone have a say.

I don't WANT to do this work either. But I don't want to be homeless, and I dont want to be working at McDonalds when I'm 70 years old because I never got an education. i also meant he is being unfair by saying it is ok for me to have sex with women for money but not okay for me to have sex with men for money.