Originally Posted by LilBabyBat
What was described, is what happens when the "nice" guy goes for the drop dead gorgeous *****. Really if he were so "nice" he'd be interested in the nice girl who sits alone with freckles, braces and bad hair. But this so-called "nice" guy is too caught up in what the girl looks like, and so all he deserves is the mis-treatment from the *****, and that's all he will get untill he learn to look deeper than skin and stop thinking he is so nice when really all he is, is very shallow.
I also agree with this in some ways.
When you break it down, you decide where your best chances are and you take your chances or you submit to the consequences.
A lot of people whine about not getting attention from the opposite sex and are into the "nobody loves me" self pitty, when really they can get the attention if only s/he lowered his/her standards. Go for the chubby/unpopular/anti-socialites and you'll have a better chance to get attention.
You don't want to go for these types? Well then be more patient and wait to see if you get lucky with the really hot number..but don't cry about "not getting attention from anyone"...there are those who are willing to pay attention to you..but maybe here it is
you who's on the rejecting side of the coin.