Ok. This is going to sound awkward I'm sure. I just subscribed onto this forum and first of all I'd like to say hey to everyone. Right to the point:

If you like a girl, and you think you would take her over any other girl in a room filled with good looking women all around. You've liked her for years and think she is the one. How can you act better and more direct to this person? Can a man talk to a women without thinking about sex? I ask if a man should masturbate a few hours before talking to the women, so he doesnt think about sex. Or will doing this kill the shy man's drive to get to know the women?

Little weird I know but look at the science involved, not the absurdity of the question. I’m not trying to be sick or anything of the like. I'm just curious.