I had a chat w/ her this afternoon about that and she had to clarify... she went on to talk about how she honestly forgot about that email long ago and it just sat in her inbox for years. She was justifying the things he was saying because of a very troublesome issue of culture, which I can actually agree with. Many people in Vietnam are obsessed as hell about comign to the US and will marry anyone that will take them. I do not find it surprising for any married person there to get a divorce and to come here through a marriage sponsorship agreement.

At the same time, I think her show guilt about it being an honest mistake seem to be enough for me. I imagine that most people that really did have something would hide would continually brush off the issue.

And yeah, I finally had her clarify the story in its entirety, so things sounded much more plausible. I've gone through a lot w/ her and I think it would be fair and wise to give her the benefit of the doubt because I would prefer not to lose a good thing.

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