Hi!!

So i've ended my 4 year relationship, got over it, moved on.

There's this new girl i like! I'm really excited about it all, she likes me too everything's great... except...

I feel so childish for saying it, but i'm really freaked out by thinking of all the guys she's been with. I mean, she's no slut it's only a handful of guys, it's just that at least 2 of them are on the same local music scene as me, like i actually know these people - just casually not as best friends or anything.

So i dunno, i really like her but i feel really put off when i imagine her and these other guys?

I've been with other partners too, but still i somehow don't expect her to feel this way about me, so why does it weird me out so much? I am a total hypocrite. Do i have some kind of bizarre purity obsession... everybody's been somewhere before, right?

any opinions appreciated!!!

Jack.