oh man. Similar situation, still undecisive. But tell her, how are you going to know if you dont take the risk. It's worth it to give it a shot. If she doesn't go along or feel the same, at least she knows and will have that with her.

Go for it. Everything happens for a reason...
Some men here may and will totally disagree with me, but it's ok, we're all gonna give advice based on our experiences.
Goodluck to ya!

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