No offense taken, you were merely stating the facts. I've always believed it too, that if someone loved you truly, they'll never look at anyone else, or think twice in a moment of weakness before betraying you.

But in response to your questions:

[quote:eed9f89398] do you yourself know or have the doubts that he will make the same mistakes again? [/quote:eed9f89398]

I've had alot of friends telling me, give it up etc coz once a cheater always one and no girl deserves this etc. etc... But one particular friend told me: "since you've decided to forgive him, why are you still holding prejudices? By telling him you're taking a second chance, you should trust him completely this time around. It's only fair becoz you promised. If you still doubt, then please dun jump back in. It'll never work out coz you'll subconsciously dig the past up."

Good pt :?

So I guess I will give him the time and believe him this time. I can't predict what would happen but the only way to find out is to give him the chance and then if things don't work out once more, I'll learn my lesson and move on.

I'll try to forget abt my past and all the unhappy things the best that I can, like you've suggested. Sometimes it's just alil hard, in the case of once bitten, twice shy. I just gotta get over this paranoia somehow. He is helping but I still feel awful.


[quote:eed9f89398] P.S: U remind me of someone i know... [/quote:eed9f89398]

You mean your friend was in the same situation? Or is it he/she babbles on too much like me :oops:

Thank you for your advice and for your listening ear!