I'm 31, she's 25. We get on really well, but there really never seems to be a suitable time to "make a move", as when we meet, it's only for a few hours every time, as she's always quite busy.

It's strange, as last year things were happening, and they've sort of quietly drifted into nothingness romance-wise. She still writes, but not as often as last year, and not quite as passionate, but still very eagerly, and I feel more than just friendly. At 31, I guess I should see things clearer, but just as confused as at 15 about these things.

But there's no question that she still really really likes me and enjoys meeting up in a big way. None of my friends can figure out quite what's going on either. It's quite a particular "case". And she's not the kind of girl who'd just play games either, that I'm sure of.

It's a very positive vibe between us, and it has been like that every time we've met, since the start. I think she's pretty sure what I think of her, so if she wasn't interested - why would she still meet up and be so happy about it, or indeed write sweet cards or send sweet stuff?

Totally confused. Thanks for replying guys and girls. Still don't know what to think...