I see what is going on here. You know something? She really wants to get to know you and let all her emotions out for you, but their is a border in there. I understand about the religion thing. But what are you afraid of? If you don't think you need religion, then tell her that you don't want religion, but then I gurantee that she will fade away from you. But then again, try going to church. Church is a whole different way of viewing the happier things in life. Most people disagree, because of all the natural problems in life. See, your friend wants to be happy, she wants to be in church and live a happy life, and you know something? She is inviting you to join her.
By the way, was Gary a christian?

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