Sorry man. You sound like a loser to me. Perhaps not generally, but with chicks. All that sentimental shit is for girls. Be a man, get on with it. I bet you haven't really banged a girl for ages. One piece of advice though - if you can't get laid after a week or two, she doesn't dig you. Get the message? I have been with 8 chicks this year already. It's just to go for it, man! Don't be such a pussy. Girls don't like emotional guys, so wise up. Don't give a shit about what they say or do, then they'll beg to sleep with ya.I know this for a fact. And us guys don't fall "in love", we wanna ****. Simple as that. Dump'em both, they don't sound like fun girls.