I need some advice. My boyfriend and I have been together around 3.5 years. We know each other pretty well and I know we love each other very much. However, lately I’m feeling uneasy and restless. I’m his first girlfriend and he’s not a romantic guy, so he doesn’t know how to fancy me like the way a girl would like. I don’t need a whole lot but sometimes a nice romantic night out like a date would be nice. I have told him this problem before, and whenever that happens, we would go out on a night in town. And afterwards everything would be fine between us until I start to feel empty again. The problem is I don’t understand why he can’t keep in mind to treat me out like a girlfriend once in awhile. I miss that about us. Now that we go on a date, I can’t stop looking at him and feel disguise about the way he dress and eat. He’s such a slob. Sometimes I would throw a few comments here and there and hope that he get the point, but he doesn’t and he turns it around and say we don’t have sex anymore. Well, is not that I don’t want to but I feel so much like a piece of meat when we do it. There’s no romance in our sex…it’s just sex. I don’t know what to do anymore. I feel like our relationship is dying…and I keep wanting to say break up but the words can’t come out of my mouth. What should I do?