I was with a guy who lied so I know the irrational, pained way I was feeling, in being jealous, was warranted.

Basically girls, if you doubt a guy it's not going to work. I think in the beginning, when initially dating someone, you can get a feel for them just by the small things they say, that slip, that give them away. I didn't read the signs cos I loved the person, but once you open your eyes you'll start piecing things together.

Jealousy is an ugly emotion. I think some people are just born with it in themselves 24/7-Me, I'm not, so to feel it so strongly was detrimental and very concerning for me. I realised that he was not worth my agonising-he was a liar and had no respect, so why should I waste my precious energy and time on someone like that?

Really, stop it, leave the person and get your life back. I'm only 20 and been thru enough shit with the ONE person, to know that it's not worth it. Have some dignity.

Cinna