I'm not mixed. But I have cousins that are. And I see them getting treated differently - kind of like 'outcasts'.

To me, the whole think is ****ed up! I don't think it's fair the way they get treated (or mistreated) by the so called 'elders, and respectable ones' in my family.

I don't know what it's like in your shoes, but I know it's gotta suck. But I'm sure you have a strong connection with both your parents, and that is what is important, right?