Originally Posted by shh!
Cut him off. He is/was using you for sex. "Friends with benefits" is a stupid idea, and considering you like him, you will be asking for heartache.
I agree. However, she did sleep with him fairly quickly (in relation to how long they knew each other).
I fairness, don't you think that's the kind of signal she was sending out to him by doing so? C'mom ladies, we guys aren't all that smart when it comes to women, we don't know what you're thinking or feeling. If you jump into bed with us right away, what are we supposed to think? that you want a longterm relationship? that you "usually" don't sleep with guys until they're in a commited relationship?
All we're asking for aare some sings.