Originally Posted by Broken smile
no he is not catholic he was bought up christian he is a few ears older than me though and maybe he is just a bit shy where as i am not! he is just a bit prudish and i cant help but compare him to my ex who was so open about sex and improved our sex life because of it!
i just want to be able to suggest things without making him feel embarrassed! but then we have a great sex life at the mo anyway so not sure what im worrying about
u know what... try being open about it yourself.... maybe then he won't think you'll take it the wrong way if he says anything... it could be that he's waiting for a cue to talk about it...
i know that when it comes to dirty talk, i NEVER start without a cue.. if the person i'm with didn't say anything... then well.. i don't either...
same goes for personal stuff like that... if the person i'm with doesn't feel comfortable telling me about her OWN info... then:
1. it's rude and not polite to tell her about mine..
2. it's not fair for HER to know... and me be left out..
so you have to make up your mind on what it is you want him to do...
do you want him to tell you??? do you want him to suggest??? do you want him to wash, cook n' clean???
whatever it is... make up your mind first... THEN make it an issue of finding a way to tell him and get your point through...