Well honestly you don't have have much to lose other then knowing the truth and if there is any possibility. I personally would rather know. I mean sometimes its just best to put it out there.....for peace of mind. Then after that you can decide what you wanna do.

You said you can't continue going on the way you have been with all your feelings bottled up. I say just tell her. Whats the worse that can happen? She says she doesn't feel the same. I mean you kinda already expect that response....but for closure I think you need to know for sure. Once you do know yes it will hurt because reality will set in. But then you can get on with your life. You can decide if you can still be friends with her or not. I wouldn't tell her your feelings thru friends........or anything like that. The truth can get twisted and things get messed up. I mean if a friend of mine told me that one of my guy friends liked me....then I would be confused. I would also rather hear it from the guy himself...

I know how you feel..... its a tough decision..... I have been attracted to many of my male friends. I guess its just when you have that friendship and compatibility with someone sometimes it just happens.

If you can't express the words to her. Maybe try writing her a letter and explaining your feelings and also explain how much her friendship means to you. Explain to her how your torn between your friendship and your feelings for her. If shes a true friend she will understand...