I should make a thread about double-standards. It seems most of you don't understand what you're talking about. Guys who sleep with many girls are studs b/c it takes skill. They need to have confidence, maker her laugh, and impress her. It's not easy for a guy to get laid. What do girls have to do to get a guy? Nothing. Girls that sleep around have a negative stigma attatched to them b/c they are perceived as having issues. Oftentimes, they act out based on immaturity, unstability, desparation, selfishness, insecurity, etc.

In addition, there is an important distinction between male studs and male sluts. Guys who sleep around with anything that walks are sluts. It takes no skill to get laid if you have low enough standards. I personally know a few guys who match this description. Guys who have lots of sex with quality girls are studs. The type of girls they sleep with can have their pick of any guy, yet they chose the studs for a reason.

To answer zorrotosire, I will quote myself from a previous post. "If you like her and she likes you, I see no reason why you two can't be together. Don't worry about how many guys she's slept with. Unless you are looking for marriage, chances are this relationship won't last anyway. View this as the perfect opportunity for lots of sex. At least you won't have to wait until she is ready. If she's had multiple partners, then she's probably picked up a few "tricks" along the way."