Originally Posted by Ellynn
Yeah you can usually tell an experienced guy from a guy who hasn't had alot of experience. I know that I have slept w/ both. It is nice to have a guy who knows what hes doing and just doesn't go right to the sex. If a guy knows how to touch a woman.....other then just on the boobs and down below....then he knows what hes doing. Either that or he's been doing some serious reading up on stuff.
Like I said before I don't like guys with high numbers. But mainly its kinda who he slept with and what his motives were when he slept with these girls. Where they a bunch of one nite stands? Was it just friends with benefits? OR were they serious relationships? This does have a factor somewhat.. Sometimes its best to not know what the numbers are and just go with what feels right.... Just use protection.
Indeed. I second that. There is nothing wrong with guy virgins. But after a girl is over 20, a little bit of expiriance is a must. I remember a couple of guys who I had sex with, that were virgins. All they did was have sex, finish, and that was it. It took them a while to break out of that pattern. I guess men are so predispositioned to having sex, that when they get to have sex for the first time, the point of sex for them is about enjoying it for themselves only.
It's very obvious to tell if a guy has had sex for the first time. It's stuff that nobody can even try and fake. I'll never forget the constant questions before sex, the akward silence during sex, and the sad sad time that it took for them to finish. Usually, if a girl wants to test a guy and see if they had sex for the first time, all you have to do is keep him in "there" for about 5 minutes. If he's still not done, chances are, that he's not a virgin. I hate it when guys claim that they're not, but they really are. Who are they trying to fool anyway?