Originally Posted by cheazypeaz
hmm
just a quick silly question
when your having sex and she is screaming away, i take it this means she is enjoying it, or is this not true? ..
I presume you can tell the difference between "Don't! STOP!!" and "DON'T STOP!!". Maybe 1/3 of women get vocal when aroused and near orgasm. Most guys get turned on by this. Some girls get self-conscious if a guy tells her how much it turns him on, and she suppresses the reaction. But there's more to "enjoying" sex than just the orgasm.
also just wondering for the girls, if having sex, and it kinda all ends a bit quickly and suddenly .. is this bad?
Most girls like to come down slowly with plenty of caressing, fondling and cuddling after intercourse.
my girlfriend has said 2 times now, your getting better... weve been having sex for about 5 months, does this mean im still not up to scratch?
ask HER! It may mean you're lasting longer - or learning her personal turn-ons - or taking more time in foreplay - or paying more attention to her pleasure in general - or it could mean that she's getting more comfortable with you - or learning how to communicate her desires to you.