We're all very happy for you Pixie, but you're not making anyone jealous. The point I wanted to make was that some men find it exciting to know that they are having sex with someone who is new at it. It's their nature to want to feel in control, and what better way than to think that they have more expiriance. That's why if I think I can, I like to say that it's my first time. This way, I don't have to sit there explaining my past, and my bf never feels that he's just one more guy on my list.