OK. Guys what is up you all feeling the need to ask about performance comparisons. If you ask us to be honest, we WILL BE HONEST. I would not sweat it too much. As long as you were not bad in bed it should not worry you(depending on the woman at least) If you LOVE eachother, it should be more about the emotional connection and not the physical one. As long as you both come out satisfied, who really cares how your past experiences were. WHY DO MEN HAVE TO ASK THOSE THINGS????? In a way, it is your own fault for causing those insecurities.