Poor Ellyn...
As long as you know that each WRONG guy, brings you closer to finding Mr. Right
He's there somewhere waiting for you to find him (Or looking to find you)
I personally don't mind a bit of chasing, i think it can be a lot of fun. Good way to look around for someone who you think is right for you and i don't think its hard at all (Just need a lot of determination and patience). If anything i think it builds up your confidence and you find a lot of friends (Outside of your normal comfort zone).
Thank you for your responses everybody. Please keep them coming!!!