I can tell you, that meeting nice girls, does not happen at parties. I didn't meet my wife at a party or any other social gathering, we simply met in class, then again, in a club meeting for school again. Now that i'm done with school and everything else, and seeing how life has pretty much taken off, I don't see anyone that I would get married to now. If I would have never met my wife during school, I might have ended up miserable, or even single my whole life.

You are in the same college or university, two things are for shur. One, you are both close or near each other, so a relationship is very realistic, and you both ended up there for one reason or an other, so either you share the same interests, or the same qualities as her.

Let's face it, after you're finished with schooling, and after you've established yourself, you plan to go out there looking to find your soulmate. And even if you do, can you honestly expect them to not be taken? I'm not talking about meeting women to get married to, but eventually, it's inevitable to meet someone in college that you won't share a strong bond with. Until that time comes, you are playing the field of the campus. You can meet some casual encounters, and even be lucky enough as to find someone whom which a serious relationship is very likely to come about from.

The point is, start getting more involved in things you would normally get involved in. If you're serious about your studies, form a study group. For each class, there should be some change in the study group. This way you can meet more people. Get involved in clubs, or other activities your university offers. Just remember, if it's something you don't enjoy, don't force yourself to do it, just so you can meet people. If you don't like south american poetry, don't join the club. If you like to party, go ahead and party. In that party, i'm shur you will find many girls who are there, who also want to party. Parties are complicated for singles. They are fun, but when you are single, it becomes a place where you look for other people to "hook up" with. Keep this in mind, since many girls you may meet there, might only be there because they are looking for someone themselves, and not really there to enjoy the party.