Originally Posted by shh!
I don't think he is worried about pregnancy, but rather about the possibility that a piece of the condom is still inside her. Have her try douching.
By the way, (assuming you are wearing the correct size condom) if she is properly lubricated you should not be having this problem. Don't skimp on the foreplay.
And be sure she is ALSO taking the pill. Condoms are not a very reliable form of birth control.
I agree with you on that one. Birth control pills are becoming the new condoms. You never see too many people comming in for abortions due to a birth control pill that broke. Condoms are very unreliable, uncomfortable, some men and women even find them painful, and truth be told, they make sex much less enjoyable.
You should try to convince her to start taking birth control pills. She might see this as you being too pushy, or just not considerate enough about her. Try to convey to her that it is both better protection against pregnancy, and pretty much eliminates the risk of vaginal track infections, assuming you are a healthy and clean partner.