Well... on the way over to her house last night I got into a car accedent... no body got hurt but I was really freaked out. So I went back home and I called her and told her how I felt (without telling her about the accedent) but in a lot nicer way than I would have before. I told her that her leaving me so much only made me think that she didn't want to be in the relationship, that I couldn't keep doing it. I told her that if she wanted to be with me she had to show me. If she couldn't find out how to do that then it wasn't meant to be. After that my phone died and she thought I had hung up on her. A few hours later she called me in tears. I have not heard her voice like that ever. She broke down on me and told me that she knew she was wrong... she didn't throw anything in my face. I told her that I would give her a second chance but if I saw us going back the way we were it would be over. I will give her one more chance to prove herself, if not I know now that my happiness is just as important as hers and if she cannot be happy with me and make me happy than it can't happen.