I have been in a relationship now for just over 2 years, we are about 3 hours drive apart. My g/f is now in her final year of college, and has told me that she wants to "live it up" in her last year. I found out today that a guy came over to her room today, and they cuddled. Nothing more. She believes that going out and making out with a guy is not cheating, and cuddling is ok as well. She says I shouldn't be worried cause she'll always come home to me in the end. I haven't been i many relationships, and was wondering what everyone has to say about my situation. I'm afraid that she's going to get drunk one night, a guy will go back to her room, they'll "cuddle", then when he wants to go further(cause we all know that that's what the guy is doing there in the first place, to get it on, not to cuddle) she's going to put on the brakes and say, "I have a b/f so nothing below the waist!". What's he going to do? Stop? I don't want her or me to get hurt. I love this girl so much, but her response to me being jealous is, go ahead and be jealous, cause it's not going to stop me. How to I talk to her about this situation? I don't want to just say, don't do it or I'll leave, cause there has to be a way to make her understand how I feel about it all.
HELP ME!!!!!!!! PLEASE!!!