hey man, if she likes chicks, she likes chicks. YOU can not control that. If she loves you, and you love her, you may have to accept that. Who knows, maybe she'll invite you into another one of her relationships and you can get lucky. really lucky. My partner has had sex with other women, yes, it does bother me, and yes, i still think its hot, but i talked to them both. Women know how to please each other, or at least they did, and they experimented. They are still great friends, and they are both straight. So that's how my situation worked out, Good Luck.