well , you both did a 3some with another male , im sure HE dint pick the male . Now its his turn to pick his girl for the next 3 some , and HE should get to pick her because your not the one thats gonna be screwing her . So wether they develop feelings or they dont ... you can never know.

""My boyfriend want to be with me and another women, i am very insecure but the reason he wants this is because i have been with him and another male for many years. ""

youve been doing this for YEARS ... your BF REALLY deserves another girl , one that he gets to pick for his 3some , after all hes put up with your guy for YEARS .


""I'm insecure because in the pass when we did have the 3somes with male it was one person in particular and that that person develop feeling for me I guess, someting happend between us, now I'm scread that the same thing may happen with him and the other women...""

so what your saying is that you cheated on your BF with one of your **** buddies? and now you dont want your BF to like someone else or to cheat on you ? well what goes around COMES around . you CAN'T be THAT selfish , especially after you did something like THAT .

your bf wants to get his other woman for his 3some , and your getting in his way being all selfish after you've had your fun , that's not fair and im surprised hes waited 3 years and that he hasnt done something behind YOUR back , you keep holding him back and i if you keep being soo selfish , one day he will cheat on you or he'll just dump you because you dint give him what he wanted and you were unfair with him.