Hi, I am a virgin at seeking relationship guidance so wording this will be tough, but I shall give it my best shot and hope you guys can help me!!

Right so there's this girl which I have adored and wanted for several years now. She was in a relationship for a while but we recently hooked up and to cut a long story short are now crazy about one another.

However, we haven't had sex yet.. It has been about a month since we've been together.. Although not seeing each other everyday and stuff we've still spent about 5-7 nights together..

I'm not in a rush or anything.. Tt's just that when I'm with her, I don't feel like I wanna jump on her and have sex with her lol. To be honest I cannot (sometimes) even get a hard-on with her.. Even when I'm kissing and rubbing her up.. But I know I reaally like, if not love her already.

With other girls (the one-night-stands), I have no problem 'jumping on'..

What's my problem and what can I do to resolve it???

Thanks so much..

Regards,
Nathan
Age: 19