Your first tip about masturbating - I don't do it tat often. I did do it, once a week, maybe two or max three times a week.. Before I started seeing this girl. Since the last month I haven't masturbated.. Not that i can remember.

Your second tip may be the answer... But how do I go about de-pressurizing the situation? I mean, she wants it aswell.. And I don't know what to tell her... She's like.. "Don't you want to have sex?".. I think I could relieve the pressure from me.. But how do I do that to her? She wants it just as much as I do..?

Thanks again - You said what I was half thinking, but couldn't word!