Mishanya- How can someone just get with someone to figure out what it's like to be in a relationship? That sounds so meaningless and devoid of feeling. Like I said, anybody can go out and get someone. It would be just anybody though. What you suggest sounds like it toys with people's feelings. Getting with someone, and the motivation is because you want to 'get experience', not particularly because you actually like them. I would appreciate a response to this, because it's really disagreeing with my beliefs at this point in time and I feel as if I need to know more from someone with a different opinion.

Ellynn- I definitely see your point... I guess my feelings of settling are very extreme. At any given point in time, if I don't feel attracted to a girl, she's not going to have any chance of me relationship-wise. But those feelings are also apt to change as time goes by or events happen. I'm just to the point to where I wouldn't even go on a date with a girl if I weren't attracted to her.

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