Sounds to me like your ****ed dude. You can't make your lady wait on you. It's not the 1920s anymore, and that shit doesn't fly now. Although it would be cool if it did. If you get back together with her, you've got to give her space and let her be with her friends sometimes and stuff. If it upsets her that she can't be with them, then don't keep her from them. People need to have fun on their own sometimes too. And don't push her now or harass her, because if you do I guarantee things will not work out.