I think when your online talking to someone.....you tend to get caught up in things and even though you are talking to the person....its not face to face.....so its not like you are around each other constantly....

I think once you met....it was ok....but when you spent all this time with her recently....you realized that this is not the girl for you. You said yourself she is high maintainence.

I know your worried about losing her as a friend if you break things off. But you need to be true to yourself. You need to do it...becuz in the long run your gonna hurt her even more. I mean its mainly an online thing right? Plus she will be busy with school....so really its not gonna change much.

Just be nice about it when you break things off with her....but also be honest. Let her know that you don't think its gonna work because of the distance thing....and also because she will be busy with school. Also let her know that you just don't feel anymore then friendship with her.....and thats it. Just say that when you guys hung out and you visited her.....you realized it.

Be honest, firm, and nice about it. It is possible. You cannot live your life to constantly please others when it makes you unhappy.

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