Yeah communication is very important.

My first time with anal was good....but I was never asked to do it. Or the guy never hinted...with words..... He just starting doing stuff and lucikly I was into it and then it happened. But a little warning ......or even asking would have been nice.

Good thing it was a good experience or I would have been pissed.

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