Yeah life can suck. You want to be caring and kind to others....but when it brings you down that you are CONSTANTLY doing it....then its really not worth it. Its not genuine. Sometimes its ok to be selfish.....when it comes to certain things. I mean you cannot fake your feelings for someone..(well you can..but eventually its bound to come out) and you will just make each other miserable.

I mean yeah sometimes you have to make sacrafices to please others.....as courtesy.....but when it comes to someone you are dating and if your not really into it....dont fake it. Your actually doing both you and her a favor by being honest with yourself.

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Appreciate the good times and learn from the bad times....