I think you like the idea of her more then her. You said yourself she annoys the heck out of you. Plus she lives really far away....and you've visited her what? Twice? Now shes gonna be busy with school......you wont be able to talk as much(and I believe you said you didn't care). I think you are afraid of losing the idea of her and her friendship.....more then losing her as a gf.

You need to be a man about this! (Funny I say that cuz Im a woman) But you are totally settling for someone for the wrong reasons. You don't want to hurt her, you find her annoying but you think maybe it could work, you like having her as a friend....... But I don't see you actually telling us that you LIKE HER for just being HER.

News flash: There are other women out there that you will probably find yourself just as OR EVEN MORE compatable with. Don't settle....just to please her or others. If you want to be with her..be with her for the right reasons.......PLEASE.

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