If it feels fast to you....then it probably is really going too fast. Also....do you think this is a rebound thing? I mean I see this exact situaiton happening to my friend.

She was married for 4 yrs and with the guy for 7 years. She has three kids with him and well they decided things weren't working out so they are going thru a divorce. The main reason is because he never wanted to do anything, go out, etc. Also he kinda lost interest in her sexually....and there are some other things as well.
Well while the divorce was in progress...she met this other guy who is completely the opposite of her ex. HE is outgoing......likes to do things....go places..... At first she wasn't that into him, but he showed her so much attention so she is dating him now. He talks about their future and even has a ring picked out to give her for when they get engaged. Its happening all very fast...and I truly believe shes happy.....but I question if its a rebound. I think she likes the newness so much that she isn't really thinking about who she is with....but just having a good time. NOthing wrong with that....but honestly jumping from one thing that is serious ....to another is a bit fast.

If things are going too fast for you....and Honestly I think they are....then you need to talk to him about that. Tell him that you do like him..but you want to slow things down a bit and just have fun and date. I mean you said yourself that you aren't quite sure if you are in love with him....but you enjoy being with him. Its a start....but don't rush things if the feelings aren't all there yet. You just went thru alot and just got out of a marriage. GIve it some time before jumping into something serious.

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