I'm pretty sure it is not a rebound. My Ex and I will be separated a year next month. Before I finally left there was heavy drug and alcohol abuse among other things. Hell, he and his girlfriend have a daughter due in Nov and he has written off me and the kids entirely. My "marriage" had been over for around 3 years before I finally got fed up and left. I do think it is too fast for me, but what is the best way to let him know? Just tell him that if he is thinking about that kind of stuff he shouldn't tell me about it? Ignorance is bliss they say. I'm trying to keep things at a pace that is good for me. I don't want to rush into anything, especially since I have 3 children to be responsible for.