Here's my random story. So I'm good friends with my first love. While with my 2nd love, I would first the first like once every 3-4 months. I didn't think it was a big deal and she didn't seem to mind. Well obviously she did, but she didnt make a big deal out of it. Well now, after 4 yrs, she's left me. Among other things she's thrown in my face is the fact that I remained friends with my first. I guess she was more uncomfortable with that than I thought. Now I have to wonder what I will do about the next girl I end up with. I want to remain friends with past relationships, but the new gal probably won't like that. I could lie and say they're just friends, but I try to never lie to those I love.