I would tend to think going "balls out" for love might now be the best thing to do. why? Because in the early stages of relationships, infatuation, lust take over. Let's be practical about certain things; yes, the feeling of attractiveness may be mutual, but would do you know about how they live? How they react in times of crisis (real ones, not like "oh, I have nothing to wear...")

I tend to feel the slow and steady approach is better. However, I analyze everything.